Moreover, you can feel downright squirrely if your spouse leaves to cool off after a heated argument. Unless your feelings have been heard and at least the promise of a resolution offered, you’ll probably be triggered into anger or despair.Your partner can also be physically present yet emotionally absent; he or she seems to “disappear” in front of your very eyes. This can drive you crazy especially if your he or she refuses to acknowledge the emotional distance that’s sending you into a tailspin.These feelings are so easily triggered that you feel abandoned even if you initiate a break-up. That is, you still come away feeling as if your partner had left you!Unresolved abandonment issues help to explain why anger surfaces over the sudden accidental death of a loved one. Whether it is expected or not, the death of a loved one can feel sudden and shocking and give rise to feelings of being left behind.Just so you know, unless abandonment issues are resolved (or until you learn better ways to respond) these feelings will arise in all your close relationships.The reason these feelings are so strong is that these right-brain-based implicit“ways of responding” were learned at a time when physical survival itself was at stake – that is, in the first few years of life.What the child learns in the early years gets ingrained in a way that is difficult to access as an adult. Yet, it is often only through our adult relationships that these feelings of abandonment are resolved.
The Idea That Your Partner May Leave You?
January 27, 2012Herbal Cures For Anxiety
January 26, 2012Anxiety is a normal human emotion that we all get every once in a while. Anxious feelings can be brought about by job interviews, exams, dates and other things. However, if you have an anxious feeling all the time with fear and panic attacks, then it could be that you have an anxiety disorder which most people face. There are several herbal cures for anxiety that can help you to get rid of the problem.Thyme, blossoms, chamomile and lavender are the main teas that can really help to calm the mind and get rid of anxiety. Aromatherapy too may be considered. It encourages physical and emotional wellness by use of fruits, essential oils of plants, and flower essences which are created to center and enhance the body and mind to help relieving anxiety. The sense of smell, which is included in aromatherapy, is a direct and harmless way to the emotional part of the brain.Passion flower is yet another great herbal cure for anxiety. It has a great tranquilizing effect that can work well to relive an anxious mind. It reduces spasms and depresses the central nervous system. If your condition as accompanied by insomnia, restlessness and panic attacks, then this may be the best herbal cure for anxiety for you.Valerian root too may be used to treat anxiety. It works well than most popular herbs for anxiety and has no side effects at all. It reduces fatigue, high blood pressure, stress, nervousness, insomnia and restlessness. It completely gets rid of anxiety if used according to the prescription. The herb may also be used for other conditions like menstrual cramps and muscle pains, irritable bowel syndrome, pain and restlessness.Then remember to keep your mind always occupied by things that you like doing. Read a book, take a hot bath or play cards and have fun with friends and relatives. Exercise a lot to keep fit as and to get rid of anxiety. If the problem seems to be persistent then the best thing would be for you to visit a psychologist.
Kakatuwa Na Naman!
January 26, 2012**)
Palusot:
nakita ng crush mo na tumutulo ang sipon mo
Anong sasabihin mo>
Sheettt!!! pati ba naman ang sipon ko.. nahuhulog na sa iyo..
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Pare1: pare parang malalim iniisip mo?
Pare2: n anaginip ako kagabi. kasama ko 50 contestants ng ms.universe
Pare1: suwerte mo ano problema mo?
Pare2:pare ako ang nanalo!
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Paano mo sasabihin sa kausap mong BABAE na mukha siyang LALAKI… ng hindi siya masasaktan? Eh di ganito sabihin mo… Uy ang kyut-kyut mo naman! Kamukhang-kamukha ka ng DADDY MO!
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Paano mo sasabihin sa kausap mo na ayaw mo na
siyang kausap…. ng hindi siya maghihinanakit?
Ganito sabihin mo… O sige pare! Lakad nako,
text-text na lang ha?
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TONYO: “Miss, isa ngang siopao, yung babae ha! ”
WAITRESS: “Babaeng siopao?? ”
TONYO: “Oo,yung papel na sapin, kumbaga napkin!! ”
WAITRESS: “Ah, ganun ba! E’ lalaking siopao po lang ang nandito. ”
TONYO: “Lalake?”
WAITRESS: “Opo, kasi may itlog sa loob eh!”
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Nagbalikbayan ang anak ni Karyo after 20 years sa Amerika. Isang umaga, nag-usap ang mag-ama:
KARYO: “John, marami akong ITINURO sa ating bagong maid. ”
BALIKBAYAN JOHN: “Dad, please speak in English!! ”
KARYO: “John, I fingered our new maid many times! ”
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Nagpa-check up ang isang buntis…
Dok: “Misis, ayon sa ultrasound, walang sanggol sa sinapupunan mo. Puro hangin lang!”
Buntis: “Hoy, dok! Excuse me! Anong akala mo sa mister ko, compressor?
Dumaguete Springs Beach Resort Bacong
January 26, 2012The resort offers all the amenities you need for a relaxing stay. All in all, it’s the perfect place to unwind, relax, and enjoy the beauty of the tropical environment. Coconut trees and a tropical lushness surround our resort, which is an ideal refuge for the family featuring a beautiful free-form swimming pool, jacuzzi, verdant garden, pool table, darts and an own private beach, private jetty and coral reef. We now also have high speed internet access at the resort! The resort is just a short drive away from Dumaguete City, with an active night life, restaurants, ferries and plenty of shopping malls.

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“I Believe I Can Fly”
January 26, 2012By: R. Kelly
I used to think that I could not go on
And life was nothing but an awful song
But now I know the meanin’ of true love
I’m leanin’ on the everlasting arms
If I can see it then I can do it
If I just believe it, there’s nothing to it
I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I think about it every night and day
Spread my wings and fly away
I believe I can soar
I see me running through that open door
I believe I can fly, I believe I can fly
I believe I can fly
See I was on the verge of breakin’ down
Sometimes silence can seem so loud
There are miracles in life I must achieve
But first I know it starts inside of me oh
If I can see it then I can be it
If I just believe it, there’s nothing to it
I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I think about it every night and day
Spread my wings and fly away
I believe I can soar
I see me runnin’ through that open door
I believe I can fly, I believe I can fly
I believe I can fly
Hey ‘cuz I believe in me
If I can see it then I can do it
If I just believe it, there’s nothing to it
I believe I can fly
I believe I can touch the sky
I think about it every night and day
Spread my wings and fly away
I believe I can soar
I see me runnin’ through that open door
I believe I can fly, I believe I can fly
I believe I can fly
Hey if I just spread my wings
I can fly
I can fly
I can fly, hey
If I just spread my wings
I can fly
Fly eye, eye
Lechon Manok
January 24, 2012Ingredients
- 1 whole chicken
- 3 tablespoons of brown or white sugar
- 1 cup soy sauce
- 1 head garlic, minced
- 1 onion, finely chopped
- 3 tablespoons of calamansi juice or lemon juice
- 1/2 cup of sprite, 7up or beer
- 2 cups of tanglad (lemon grass) for stuffing
- 1 teaspoon ground black pepper
Directions
- Marinate the whole chicken in soy sauce, calamansi juice, minced garlic, chopped onions, soda or beer, sugar and pepper.
- Let stand marinate in the refrigerator for 1 to 3 hours.
- Stuff the chicken cavity with tanglad (lemon grass).
- Cook chicken on grill or in oven until golden brown
Dream Meanings
January 24, 2012Nag
To dream that someone is nagging you suggests that you need to change your attitudes about your preconceived notions. It is time to make some changes in your life. You need to look at things from a different perspective.
Napkin
To see a napkin in your dream signifies neatness and cleanliness. Alternatively, the dream may be preparing you for some good news. To see soiled napkins in your dream symbolize some major marital or relationship problem.
Negatives
To see picture negatives in your dream represent a relationship or situation that is developing. The dream may be a pun on some “negative” person or force in your life. Consider also what is being depicted in the negative.
Net
To see a net in your dream suggests that you are caught in a complicated life situation. You feel trapped. Alternatively, the dream means that you need to expand your reach. it is time to “cast those nets” and see what comes back. The net may thus be a metaphor for your network of connections or the internet.
To dream that you are waiting is indicative of issues of power/control and feelings of dependence/independence, especially in a relationship. Consider how you feel in the dream while you were waiting. If you are patient, then you know things will happen at their own pace. If you are impatient, then it means that you are being too demanding or that your expectations are too high.Alternatively, the dream may denote your expectations and anxieties about some unknown situation or decision. You are experiencing a sense of anticipation or uneasiness.
To receive a warning in your dream indicates that something in your waking life is in need of your attention. The dream may serve to make you stop and rethink the consequences of your action or decision.To dream that you are warning someone suggests that you need to recognize the dangers or negatives of some situation. You need to bring this to the surface.
To see or eat ice cream in your dream denotes good luck, pleasure, success in love and satisfaction with your life. You need to savor the moment and enjoy it. Alternatively, the dream may suggest that you need to cool off and not let your temper get out of hand. On the other hand, the ice cream may be a pun on “I scream”. Perhaps there is something that you need to let out.To dream that you are eating bad or sour ice cream signifies sorrow, disillusionment, or betrayal.To see ice cream melt in your dream symbolizes failure to realize your hopes and desires.
To dream that you are ignoring someone or being ignored represents some aspect of yourself which you are not paying enough attention to. Perhaps you are overlooking something. Alternatively, it may reflect your real waking experiences of being ignored by that person.
To dream that you have an illness denotes despair, unpleasant changes, or some emotional breakdown. The illness may be symbolic of your inability to cope with a situation. You see that being ill is an easy way out. On a more direct note, this dream may signal you to pay closer attention to your health especially to the areas of body revealed in the dream.
Game
To dream that you are hunting, shooting at, or killing game refers to the game of life. It also represents your ability to keep your animalistic nature in check and in control.
Gap
To see a gap in your dream suggests that you need to bring two sides together. The dream may also indicate that there is something lacking in your idea or argument.
Garbage Can
To see a garbage can in your dream symbolizes unwanted ideas, thoughts or memories. It is time to rid yourself of the baggage. Alternatively, the garbage can means that you are rejecting an idea or emotion.
Walang Iba
January 24, 2012Hanggang sa magkasakitan
Na ‘di alam ang pinagmulan
Pati maliliit na bagay
Na napag-uusapan
Bigla na lang pinag-aawayan
Ngunit kahit na ganito
Madalas na ‘di tayo magkasundo
Ikaw lang ang gusto kong makapiling
Sa buong buhay ko
Chorus:
Kahit na binabato mo ako ng kung anu-ano
Ikaw pa rin ang gusto ko
Kahit na sinasampal mo ako’t
Sinisipa’t nasusugatan mo
Ikaw pa rin
Walang iba
Ang gusto kong makasama
Walang iba
Walang iba
Nagsimula sa mga asaran
Hanggang sa magkainitan
Isang eksenang bangayan na naman
Ba’t ba kase pinagpipilitan
Ang hindi maintindihan
Di naman kinakailangan
Ngunit kahit na ganito
Madalas na di tayo magkasundo
Ikaw lang ang gusto kong makapiling
Sa buong buhay ko
Kahit na binabato mo ako ng kung anu-ano
Ikaw pa rin ang gusto ko
Kahit na sinasampal mo ako’t
Sinisipa’t nasusugatan mo
Ikaw pa rin
Walang iba
Ang gusto kong makasama
Walang iba
Kahit na binabato mo ako ng kung anu-ano
Ikaw pa rin ang gusto ko
Kahit na sinasampal mo ako’t
Sinisipa’t nasusugatan mo
Ikaw pa rin
Walang iba
Ang gusto kong makasama
Walang iba
Wag ka ng mawawala
Hmm, walang iba.
How Do You Know If His Gay?
January 23, 2012
There are many signs to think of that your boyfriend is a gay, but dont get wild of what you are thinking because it is not that easy. There are many guys who are acting like girls, wear pink stuff or chat with macho men, but in reality they are not gay.Figuring out whether your loved one is gay or not is a very tricky business. There are as many types of gayness as there are many gay guys in the world. Some homosexuals want their sexual orientation be known to the whole world. Others are still hiding inside their dark closet, trying to avoid being caught. These men act like ordinary men that you can hardly imagine what their true sexuality is.
- Some say that a guy is gay if Dressing more feminine
- Looking at other men in a different way
- Holding his hands different
- Changes his clothes
- Stealing your makeup
- Paints the walls pink/purple
- Or if when hes with men he hugs them or acts slightly different
Things that Can Reduce Your Libido
January 23, 2012Excessive stress levels, especially for a prolonged period of time, increase production of cortisol, which in turn reduces testosterone production… lower testosterone = lower sex drive.Lack of sleep can lower your libido… in the morning (or whenever you wake up) is when you have your highest levels of testosterone, and throughout the day, these testosterone levels slowly reduce. Without a full nights rest, you do not start off with your full testosterone levels, and the situation gets worst as the day progresses.Having excessive fat in your stomach area causes estrogen production to increase, and this can have an inverse relation with your testosterone levels, leading to a lower sex drive. Any reduction in stomach fat can cause a significant improvement in your testosterone levels and sex drive.Not getting enough exposure to sunlight, not eating a fair amount of fats in your meal, as well as excessive aerobic activity can also lead to a reduction in testosterone, lowering your sex drive/libido.