Women have this bond with their loved ones such that they can feel if anything bad is happening or that they are hiding something. Women instinct not exactly have a scientific explanation but a lot of experience through time shows that more often than not it is correct. It is true that using women instinct on catching cheating spouse would help a lot.Recognizing one instinct and appreciating the fact that it may be telling something to you is the first step. Even though there may be no scientific explanation why one feels that way, more or less, these feelings have actually a source. It could be a simple realization that your husband has gone cold with your relationship or that he is hiding a lot from you such as secret phone calls, text messages and even details on his whereabouts. Recognize these feelings that tell you that something may be wrong in your relationship. The secret is by having a clear mind when dealing with the problem. Instead of starting quarrels with your husband, one should be very calm in handling the problem. Feel where the problem is and you might find evidence or even a solution in your problem. Once you have taken the first step of recognizing this instinct, you should set your priorities right and make the right move. Remember that even though these feelings are often correct, there is still the possibility that what you feel is wrong. Make sure that you are assessing the facts based on concrete evidence and not on mere conclusions that are affected by your emotions.If you were able to gather sufficient evidence to prove that your husband is cheating, it would be only just to present it to your husband and hear what he has to say.Just be ready for the consequences of this confrontation. He may or may not admit your accusations despite the evidences. And in doing so, you can still use your instinct whether or not to believe him since you have your evidences and you had given him the opportunity to say what he has to say.